Is Your Impatience Damaging Your Life ?

If you suffer from impatience, it probably means that you are a highly intelligent person. You're quick-thinking and quick-acting.

If you're suffering, it also means that you're in a negative Impatiens state, which can be damaging to you and to those around you.

Working with those who proceed at a slower pace is a constant irritant, so you're apt to become tense and irritable. From a physical standpoint, you could be prone to nervous indigestion, sudden pain due to nervous tension, and even hot flashes. You're also apt to tire quickly, simply because the stress combined with inaction is exhausting.

Are you an impatiens personality?

In addition to being highly intelligent, Impatiens personalities are independent, although they're generally open to good advice. The best jobs for them allow them to work alone, at their own fast pace. While their intelligence and efficiency often get them promoted to "higher" positions, this is not where they want to be, nor is it where they belong, because it can put them into a negative state.

Those in a negative impatiens state make very unpopular supervisors, since they'd rather just do a task themselves instead of guiding and teaching a trainee. As bosses, they tend to push employees until they become known as slave-drivers.

They make even worse teachers.

I recall a teacher I knew who was an impatiens personality in a perpetual negative state. She taught algebra, and her students suffered. Those who could grasp the concept from the book alone did well, but students who needed instruction simply ended up hating algebra. She had no patience with teaching and would berate those students for their stupidity.

Impatiens parents tend to do things for their children rather than teaching them to do for themselves – which can be extremely damaging to those children. I've known young people who didn't even know how to sew on a button, or load a dishwasher, simply because their parents didn't take the time to show them how.  

Fortunately, Dr. Bach created the Impatiens flower essence to allow the impatiens personality to enjoy life with their more "laid back" co-workers, friends, and relatives

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If you suffer from this negative state, visit FeelBach! to order this flower essence today. You'll be much happier, and so will those who love you. 

  

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Look Forward to School Vacation - With Help from the flower essence Impatins

The kids will soon be out of school - and you may be dreading it. 

The first week or so they'll be thrilled with their new freedom, and then… They'll start the "I'm bored – there's nothing to do" routine. And when they get too bored, they'll start squabbling with each other. 

Trying to find "fun things" for the kids to do and trying to keep them from picking on each other can turn the most patient and loving parent into a jumble of ragged nerves - apt to explode at any time. 

And no parent wants to explode. It just happens sometimes when the pressure gets to be "too much" and patience flies out the window.

The good news is, Feel Bach! has a remedy to smooth those jagged nerves. Dr. Bach's flower essence  "Impatiens" is just the thing. A couple of drops under the tongue 3 or 4 times a day, and you'll soon find your nerves, and your patience, returning to normal.

As the name suggests, Impatiens is the essence of patience. It is used most for people who are generally impatient - those who are quick-witted and move at a fast pace. These are the folks that, when forced to supervise or work in cooperation with others, generally want to just push the other people out of the way and do the job themselves because they can do it faster and better.

Individuals who have the Impatiens personality should not be forced into working with others who might not keep their pace. Unfortunately, we sometimes have to do tasks that don't fit our personalities, and in that case Impatins comes to the rescue.

Use Bach Flowers to relieve Day-to-day Stresses

You don't need to be suffering from a chronic imbalance to benefit from Bach Flower Essences.

As you know if you use Feel5ive to relieve high stress situations, using Bach Remedies for short-term situations can make your days more pleasant. Not only that, it can help prevent you from falling into a chronic state that you don't desire.

For instance, if you yell at your child and feel guilt, that feeling can build until you feel like a horrible parent. Using Pine to relieve the guilt and Impatiens to relieve the impatience that caused the yelling can work effectively to prevent a chronic state from occurring.

At the same time, you can use Bach Flower Remedies ahead of time when you know you're going into a situation where you can predict your emotional state. For instance, taking a few drops of Larch before going to a job interview can help you maintain the confidence that will get you the job.

Study the Flower Essences at www.bachflower.org and think about the situations that temporarily derail your life. Then stock up on the ones you need and take them any time you begin to fall into that negative state.

Staying in emotional balance will mean a happier life for you and all who love you.

Keep Your Patience, Enjoy the Summer

The kids are out of school - and now all that freedom they longed for is becoming boring. So, what do kids do? They squabble with each other!

That can turn make the most patient and loving parent into a jumble of ragged nerves - apt to explode at any time. And no parent wants to yell at the kids. It just happens sometimes when the pressure gets to be "too much" and patience flies out the window.

The good news is, Bach Flower Essences has a remedy. The Bach flower "Impatiens" is just the thing - for both the kids and the frazzled parent. A couple of drops under the tongue for each of you, and you'll soon find your nerves, and your patience, returning to normal.

As the name suggests, Impatiens is the essence of patience. It is used most for people who are generally impatient - those who are quick-witted and move at a fast pace. These are the folks that, when forced to supervise others, generally want to just push the other person out of the way and do the job themselves because they can do it faster and better.

Individuals who have the Impatiens personality should not be forced into that position, but instead should work alone - where they can move at their own pace, uninhibited by others who might do a fine job, but not move as quickly. Unfortunately, we sometimes have to do tasks that don't fit our personalities, and in that case this Bach Flower Essence comes to the rescue.

Let yourself enjoy having the kids out of school... with a little help from Impatiens.

Do you dislike being the boss?

Two primary personality traits mark those who really don't like being boss: One is impatience.

These folks have trouble tolerating those under their supervision who can't seem to follow directions, work too slowly, make mistakes, talk too much, or any number of other irritants.

If you find yourself in this situation, Impatiens is the Bach flower essence for you. It helps extend patience for those around us, and helps us to stay calm and diplomatic.

Another reason many dislike supervisory jobs is their own insecurity - lack of confidence in making decisions. This trait sends us off to seek advice from others even when we know what should be done.

For that situation, Cerato is the Bach Flower Essence to choose.

If you aren't enjoying your life as you know you could, Bach Flower Remedies can probably help. The first step, of course, is recognizing the emotions that are holding you back. Only then can you choose the flower essences to rebalance your energies and put yourself back on the path to happiness.

Visit Feel Bach! today - read the descriptions of the 38 Bach Flower Essences and what each is used for - and then get your personal blend.