Relationships with family and
friends are precious – to be nurtured and tended carefully. But sometimes
accidents happen. Some small misunderstanding or disagreement can fester and
grow until that relationship you cherish seems to be irreparably broken.
Since it generally "takes two
to tango," the first step toward reconciliation is to get your own
emotions under control. Then your attitude and reactions to the other person
will change, and that can effect a change in them as well.
If you want to get back on track,
you can't expect the other person to change. You need to start with you.
First, examine your own feelings. Look
at yourself as you think others might be seeing you. Do they see a person who
is controlling, one who can't let anyone else be right, or maybe one who is
afraid of change? What do you see when you look through their eyes?
Go to the questionnaire at FeelBach and be completely honest filling it out - even if it feels
painful to face truths about your own feelings. Remember, this isn't being
broadcast to the world - this is you talking with you.
When you see what blend is recommended for you, take a look at the individual essences and read what they'll do for you. Do they describe the emotions that have been ruling your behavior?
When you see what blend is recommended for you, take a look at the individual essences and read what they'll do for you. Do they describe the emotions that have been ruling your behavior?
Once you begin to balance your own
energies with Dr. Bach's flower essences, you'll notice a change in yourself.
And before long, your changed attitude should cause a better reaction from that
other person. Keep it up, and before long your relationship should be back on
track.
Relationships with those we love are too precious to let them fall by the wayside. So don't wait for someone else to change – change yourself and you'll affect everyone around you.
Relationships with those we love are too precious to let them fall by the wayside. So don't wait for someone else to change – change yourself and you'll affect everyone around you.